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In 2015, I hiked the Grand Canyon rim to rim in a single day. About 26 miles, starting at 3 a.m. in the dark, down the North Rim, across the bottom, and up the South Rim. It's like hiking a reverse mountain. You start by going down, and the hardest part is at the end, climbing nearly seven miles of switchbacks straight up a rock face in the sun.
I had trained, but not enough. As I started the climb out, my heart rate kept redlining. I'd hike a while, stop to recover, hike again. My business partner at the time, was a faster hiker, but he chose to stay back with me. He went slower than he needed to. He encouraged me, walked with me, and essentially nursed me out of the canyon. I remember reaching the rim and getting emotional, partly from the accomplishment, but mostly because I hadn't done it alone.
The next year, I went back with my wife and a friend. About halfway up the North Rim, My friend looked at me and said, "I don't think I can make it." I told him that no one was coming to get him so he had no choice but to make it. I realized at that point I had to be for my friend what my business partner was the year before. It was time for me to be the encourager and guide out of the Canyon.
The leadership lesson is simple. Our journey is long and challenging, and sometimes beautiful, but it is always better when we're doing it with someone. The goal isn't just to be guided. The goal is to one day turn around and guide someone else.